The burden of choice - parse a situation that has created life itself

The situation first.

One elderly man already has a son from his second marriage. The son grew up, where his father was actively engaged in the business, so his best friends were a TV, game console, and then computer games. The boy may have had good intelligence data, but over time they lost, the school finished with a scratch and without the ' help ' father. Then he entered the university has to pay. But also there from the first session of the problems began - not allowed to surrender due to the tails of a number of subjects. Of course, my father began to solve the problem in his usual manner - to look for someone to give to the problem disappeared. Sam 's son said that he did not need a university and wants to get into the glorious ranks of traffic police, to wave his stick at the crossroads and grebsti Salvage shovel. His father believes that his son should become an economist.

The problem is that the father for the second time occurs on the same rake. Son from his first marriage he had once helped with the choice of a profession. A good profession, but after ten years of a pretty good career, the son snapped this activity and took a diametrically opposite from the ground up. With all the attributes of the life course such as problems with income and family problems because of this. And Dad does not because the rigidity of character, but because it sees its vital mission by any means, but the character has a very soft to the fact. But sometimes help is to the detriment of. So here we get a double edged sword - you will not help son, maybe a guy so twist and suffer, then what would be worse. Or wipe his nose for another ten years in the hope that the guy he realizes that he needs.

second situation.

Let's just say some girl Masha went to study in another country and nice proebyvaet money to pay for school discos and shopping. It is clear that to pay for his studies at the time nothing. Ask parents to re ashamed of it. And she asks her brother Sasha. Money from his brother, but they are delayed for another event, which you must also be accountable to parents. T. e. have to explain why he did not go where he wanted. Although he is free to the expenditure of these funds.

dilemma. Or give money and to save his sister from a showdown with her parents, but to substitute itself. Or deny, then my sister will have to solve the problem directly with the parents, but the relationship may be between her and her brother spoiled. And to deny a person the mother is not so easy. What should I do?.

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